To love
unconditionally. To give without expectation. To give your best until
you take your last breath. To stand in the face of fear, and always
have faith.
Today marks a day
of celebration and love in my life. My grandmother Betty is enjoying
a wonderful vacation at the beach while commemorating her birthday.
This remarkable matriarch is the apple of my eye. She has been by my
side through thick and thin, and I am so thankful to have her in my
life. She's not traveled an easy road herself, but who among us has?
Undeterred by adversity, she continues forward with love in her heart
and faith in knowing that “in the end everything will be OK. If
it's not OK, it's not the end.” I need this reminder every once in
a while.
Today I am also
blessed with my 5 year Veganiversary. For five years I have lived a
complete vegan lifestyle. Of all the days in the calendar year, this
is the one day that I really like to take a look back and reflect
upon changes, achievements, and contemplate my goals for the future.
So what do
veganism and my Grama Betty have in common?? Both have taught me to
love unconditionally. There are reasons why there are poems written
about a grandmother's love. It is unique, and yet grounded in wisdom.
It teaches you to see through the temporary, for all things change,
and then encourages you to get back up when you've fallen down. A
love like this is absolute.
I have also found
an unequivocal love in the vegan lifestyle. It is something that
sparked my attention momentarily when I was a child, but it came
back full steam ahead upon watching the movie Babe. Who knew
“Why would the farmer eat me? The farmer is my friend.” would
create such a spontaneous echo in my soul, so suddenly and
unexpectedly? Many would call this type of love for other sentient
beings unique, but it too is also grounded in wisdom.
“All beings
tremble before violence. All fear death, all love life. See yourself
in others. Then whom can you hurt? What harm can you do?”
~Buddha
I cannot find
anything more true than this statement. All beings, regardless of
race, religion, sexual preference, physical body form or language,
want and need the same basic life essentials: to love and be loved,
to feel secure, and to be happy. We all bleed the same color. We
laugh and cry in the same language. We all most certainly die.
Some people get
their panties in an uproar over open discussions about spirituality
and veganism, and some vegans get cranky when you mention any type of
spiritual connection to the lifestyle. I guess these topics create
uncomfortable feelings when they are not fully understood. It's hard
to face fears and uncertainties, but isn't that an essential part of
life? Looking, learning, thinking, reasoning, and feeling - these are
all tools for understanding life. It's within these five elements we
find ourselves on a path that is unique for each individual, whatever
that path may be. So what is this all about anyway? What is the point
that I am trying to make?
My Grama Betty
once told me something that my Pap Larry would say when he was alive,
and that is “When we die and go to heaven, we aren't going to
walk down a corridor of doors marked Catholic, Baptist, Methodist, or
Jewish. And if there is, won't everyone be surprised when it empties
into the same big room.” Indeed, won't we? Standing together as
brothers and sisters, regardless of creed, color, race, religion, or
species, that is love and that is my point.